I’m someone who learns by doing, as opposed to by seeing, listening, or reading. Since I didn’t struggle in school, as a student, I never saw my learning style as a disadvantage. But now that I’m a middle-aged adult, when I look back at the way I’ve handled certain aspects of my life, I see a pattern of holding back and of avoiding scary new things.  This pattern has continued as I’ve attempted to establish myself as a professional writer.

Time and time again, I’ve attended writing events where a less experienced author speaks about a topic that I know a whole lot about. I find myself asking myself, “Why are they up there behind that podium and not you?” It’s not that I’m jealous. The reality is that I’m impressed with their guts and their ability to “just do it!” as the Nike ad says.  

So, what do you do if you’re a writer who would love to someday give a TED Talk or even just do an author’s talk at a local library, but you don’t know how to get started, or better yet, how to summon up the confidence to even try to get started? Below are some tips that might help you get closer to that stage.

1. Attend other authors’ events for inspiration.
2. Join a Public Speaking Club like Toastmasters to hone your skills and build confidence.
3. Create content via a blog or articles, so when a speaking opportunity arises, you already have material.
4. Ask another author if you can partner up with them and give a joint talk. That way, all the focus won’t be on you, and you can support each other.
5. Get comfortable in front of a crowd by reading your pages at Open Mic Nights.
6. If the visual aspect of giving a talk intimidates you, consider becoming a podcast guest as a first step.
7. Practice your author talk even if you don’t have one. Good fortune is what happens when planning meets opportunity. (Seneca) Good author talks happen, too.
8. Share your excitement about your novel. People are more likely to request that you speak at their event if you’re enthusiastic.
9. Think about why your book or what you’re going to speak about matters.  Focus on helping or serving others, and let that be the force that propels you up onto that stage.
10. Remember, even if you just learn one thing from an experience, that’s a win.

Thanks for reading! I’d love to hear your tips on overcoming doubts and author talks. Keep writing!